One Month At A Time

So it finally happened, my Little Buddy turned one year old! I am not sure where the time went or how we got to this point but it happened. This past year has been the most demanding, stressful, tiring, as well as joyful, exciting, and rewarding year of my life. Every day my Little Buddy learns something new. I understand that he literally knows nothing so of course he is constantly learning, however the amazing part is the look on his face once that light bulb goes off. I remember him realizing that his feet were attached to him, I watched as he suddenly figured out that he could hold his own bottle. Just the other day I witnessed the most excited look as he made it to the top of the stairs. I have tried to photograph as many of these moments as possible and have definitely made it to the millions of pictures bracket. Though I am not going to share millions of pictures with you I would like to share this collection of monthly images.

My wife and I knew that we wanted to document his growth via a series of photographs and we also knew that to do this correctly we needed a constant for scale comparisons. I wanted to get him a necktie and while walking through a store one day we came across a super cute teeny tiny Adirondack chair. It was perfect! With the tie and the chair adding a bright pop of color his pictures came out lovely. So here they are one month to twelve months with an added bonus.

Enjoy!

Until next time ... have you cake and eat it too!

Potato Potato ... I Think That Only Works When You Say It ...

Photography is one of my favorite hobbies. In recent times I have been taking many pictures of my son and family (by many I mean millions). It has been a while since I have done a food shoot and I thought now was as good a time as ever. Winter is coming to an end, I think, and soups will probably not be on the menu for much longer so here is a super easy and delicious soup that anyone can make.

  To begin with there should be a whole pound of thick sliced bacon being prepared while three potatoes, and a small onion are peeled and chopped. A small bunch of green onions are also to be chopped however the white portion should just be added to the other onion.

Once the bacon is cooked and chopped the potatoes and onions should just go right into the pan the bacon came out of. There is no need to drain the pan, that is only more flavor! Season with whatever you like, personally I like to use McCormak Steak Seasoning. 

 While that is heating up and the potatoes are softening, 3 cups of chicken broth and 1 quart of heavy cream should be heating up.

Once the potatoes are softened enough they are added to the broth and blended smooth. This is where an immersion blender comes in handy, if you do not own one you should fix that. Once all the chunks are gone the bacon is added.

Garnish with the green onion tips and a bit of shredded cheese and consume. This is quickly becoming one of my favorite dishes and it is so simple to make.

Since I am still technically a "new dad" no blog post would be complete without another baby pic. So here it is, my toughest critic even likes this soup!

Cousins!

Currently my driveway is surrounded by giant piles of snow and there is no green grass to be found. However, moths ago there was no snow and the days were much warmer. In those months I was able to bring together two of the cutest babies around.

 

Together the pair are quite the adorable little team!

 Though as a team they are quite difficult to get to follow directions. All I needed was for them both to have their eyes open at the same time. I must have shot 30 pictures in rapid secession and was not really able to get them to have their eyes open.

 Eventually they stopped paying attention to me at all and began to search for ... well anything they could find actually. They found leaves ... and grass .... and it was all more interesting than myself or my sister dancing the part of a fool behind me.

Sometimes cousins are just silly, they make faces at each other, or climb on each other's faces, but at the end of the day they still love each other.

You have got to love my son, always with the tongue out and doesn't mind in the least that his big cousin is about to clock him one on the jaw.

Again I can not stress enough the importance of taking pictures. Every phone can do it even if you do not own a camera, there are no excuses. Moments that are captured are preserved memories and those are more valuable than any other item or gift that can be given or received. Keep that in mind this holiday season. As always, thank you for taking the time to peer into my mind and seeing the world though my eyes.

Other People's Pictures

My fascination with trying to capture other people's pictures began, as most artistic endeavors, by accident. While at a football game I was getting ready capture a field goal kick when a few rows in front of me a fellow Patriots fan lifted her phone above her head also trying to capture the moment. I quickly re-framed my shot, refocused, and took the shot. The image is still one of my favorites that I have taken in a while, excluding pictures of my son.

The more I looked at the picture the more I became intrigued by the notion of taking more like it. With the development of camera phones being able to take better quality pictures more and more people have a camera on hand at almost any time of day. People are now beginning to communicate with pictures almost as often as with words. With things like Facebook, Instagram, and Snapchat pictures and words actually have an exchange rate (though I think a million might be an exaggeration for most snapshots).

These photos represent for me a look into how others are viewing their surroundings. Through many years of practice and many failed attempts I would like to think that I can frame a decent photo. It has always been my belief that there is a difference between a snapshot and a photograph. Maybe I sound like a snob but hear me out. Most people use point and shoot cameras or phone cameras to take snapshots. They pictures taken of people turned to look at the camera and smile for the soul purpose of saying here I was at this time in my life. A photograph is more of a statement on the beauty of a landscape, the culture of a people, or even a statement about the personalities and relationships between people.

I am not saying that you cannot take a photograph with a phone, nor am I saying that I am a better photographer than most people. For me photographs can say more than snapshots because they invoke thought, begin conversations, or have different meanings to different viewers.

My goal with this project is to take other peoples snapshots and make photographs about them. Framing a photograph is probably the most important part. When I am on vacation I try not to be a jerk about it but I take a picture of my wife and before I hand my camera to a passerby I show them the picture and ask "could you please take this picture with me in it?" Of course the next thing I usually have to say is "No you have to look through the hole the screen doesn't work like that." As more and more people take more and more pictures though they are starting to figure it out. I would be willing to say that the average teenager takes at least one picture a day, that is a lot of opportunity for failed as well as successful photos. Without realizing it the everyday average Joe is becoming a better photographer.

This whole project is about seeing the world through someone else's viewfinder. Capturing that moment of them trying to take that snapshot that will remind them of where they were that time they took that picture. It may also be a fairly safe bet to say that most pictures taken with a phone somewhere end up on some form of social media. With that in mind this project is also a commentary on communication and insight into what people are trying to say to the world.

Taking pictures is a fantastic way to preserve moments in time. They really are worth words and there is no reason that you should ever stop. Keep your cameras handy and don't hesitate to take a shot of that time you did that thing.

P.S. what does it say about me that all of these photos are framed to the left?

Learning Curve

Another year has passed and that can only mean one thing. Another trip to Cape Cod!

Last year was the first trip to the Cape that included a baby. While down there we reminisced about our younger and more wild years. No one was injured, no one passed out, and no one was hung over at any point. Instead we traded in our late night drinking for sun set sundaes.

This year was all about one thing, discovery, not to mention the fact that the number of babies has doubled!

This year Allie had a friend in my son Maxwell (who happened to be the almost the same age Allie was last year).

If last year was about reflecting on the past, this year was about looking to the future and the newest additions to our group.

The children also had plenty to discover as Max experienced the ocean for the first time, and Allie searched for sea creatures. Though I have met Allie on many occasions this was the first time that she was able to identify my wife and I. She was even able to say Max's name (she still has not said mine, my wife's, or even her auntie Julia's whom she sees on a regular basis).

Though the little ones are cute and adorable this trip also served an a bit of an introduction into what having a child around might be like. It is rare that a group of friends from college are able to remain in such good contact as ours and even rarer that we all married each other. The children we make are all going to have many aunts and uncles. There is always going to be someone there to tell stories of our past shenanigans and congratulate our future accomplishments.

This year on the Cape everyone learned something new. For some it was the feel of salt water and for others it was how fast an 18 month old can run into the water.

We are now grown ups, parents, and responsible adults ... ok, responsible-ish.

Another year passed and another successful cape trip. So many great memories with so many great friends, my family and I are truly blessed. 

In closing I want to remind you all (all 5 of you who are going to read this) to remember to take your cameras everywhere and take pictures often. Max will not remember this trip but he will always be able to look back on it. 

Thank you for reading.